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Response to Sponsee about Evil emails her Sister was sending her after she made Amends...

"Yes, there is a long period of reconstruction ahead. We must take the lead. A remorseful mumbling that we are sorry won't fill the bill at all. We ought to sit down with the family and frankly analyze the past as we now see it, being very careful not to criticize them. Their defects may be glaring, but the chances are that our own actions are partly responsible. So we clean house with the family, asking each morning in meditation that our Creator show us the way of patience, tolerance, kindliness and love. The spiritual life is not a theory. We have to live it. Unless one's family expresses a desire to live upon spiritual principles we think we ought not to urge them. We should not talk incessantly to them about spiritual matters. They will change in time. Our behavior will convince them more than our words. We must remember that ten or twenty years of drunkenness would make a skeptic out of anyone. There may be some wrongs we can never fully right. We don't...

Growing in Christ Jesus and Sobriety....

How I Break down the Serenity Prayer: God , (Jesus) Grant me the  Serenity  (peace, stillness, calm, trust, faith) To  Accept  (accepting it, not forcefully pushing back or blocking) The Things I  Cannot Change  (others, the world, the past) The  Courage  (Strength, Fearlessness-praying to have courage if I don't, to face and to walk though it) To  Change  the Things I can (me, my attitude, my perception, my willingness-praying for willingness if I don't have it)  And the  Wisdom  to know the Difference (discernment between playing God by trying to change the things I can't or accepting what ever it is or who they are, and having faith that God knows what he is doing and doesn't need my input or interference) As sponsors we do not try to "fix" or control-We teach what was given to us by what we learn in AA, from our sponsors, from our fellows. We get Wisdom from the Holy Spir...